#joblesswife or #busybeemommy

Is the pressure of parenting more on a house wife?!!? 

Hands in hands, fingers clenched to each other and they both dreamt of a perfect house 🏡. They embarked on the journey with "togetherness" and sailed smooth for few years. Then with "togetherness" they decided to anchor ⚓ their love boat 🚣 to a levee and settle down for a new voyage of "parenthood" 👪 . And then they lived happily ever after..... ❤❤

Isn't the story similar to almost every couple in love?!
But isn't that virtue of "togetherness" of parenting gets faded away with the flip of calendar pages and things become more categorically defined like: "his job" and "her  job"?! Gradually, the time exerts more coercion on the new mother and parenting becomes a little unbalanced job. The house wives gets more intimidated when their soul partner utters "I am tired, you won't understand the work pressure "! This constant harrying makes the house wives take most of the pressure of parenting.

The weekends become a hibernating period after a tiring week for the husbands who just prefers to sip a chilled beer and play a good game of "daddy love" with the baby. And the wife's endeavors of switching between baby's need and stealing some private moments with her partner just go unnoticed. That feeling of not putting up the best foot forward for them who are her world makes her more often crestfallen.

So are you a #joblesswife or #busybeemommy?